At the Wesley Foundation we are currently in a sermon series titled “Where You Go, I’ll Go” focusing on the book of Ruth. As we conclude this series we are examining Ruth chapter 4. Leading up to chapter 4 here is a quick recap of what has happened in this story...
“Naomi, Elilemech, and their two sons were forced to move from their hometown because of a famine. Elilemech died. The two sons got married and then they died. Naomi moved back to her hometown and brought along her daughter in law Ruth. Ruth went to work and met a relative of Elilemech’s named Boaz. Boaz gave her a job and Naomi encouraged Ruth to pursue Boaz.
Ruth 4:13-17 says...
13 So Boaz took Ruth and she became his wife. When they came together, the Lord made her conceive, and she bore a son. 14 Then the women said to Naomi, “Blessed be the Lord, who has not left you this day without next-of-kin; and may his name be renowned in Israel! 15 He shall be to you a restorer of life and a nourisher of your old age; for your daughter-in-law who loves you, who is more to you than seven sons, has borne him.” 16 Then Naomi took the child and laid him in her bosom, and became his nurse. 17 The women of the neighborhood gave him a name, saying, “A son has been born to Naomi.” They named him Obed; he became the father of Jesse, the father of David.
When we first met Ruth times were hard but now there is new life for her. She lives in a different country, married to a different man, and we learn that after her marriage she gives birth to a son. Where there was famine, now there is harvest. Where there was barrenness, now there is birth. And yet as much as this is Ruth’s story many people argue that this biblical book has the wrong title. Many say, this isn't Ruth’s story as much as it is Namoi’s story. Some believe it should have been titled, the book of Naomi, and I have to agree. Ruth is the co star but the main character in my opinion is Namoi. The story begins and ends with her.
I asked my wife Margaret, ‘what do you think about Ruth chapter 4, theres a new baby, new life, happily ever after, right?’ Margaret said, “I don't think happily ever after necessarily.” And to paraphrase Margaret went on to say, “Yes there is new life and thats powerful and important but that doesn't erase the past hardships and magically make everything ok. That wouldn't be faithful to this story or to real life, Margaret said. But the fact that they move on, they keep moving forward in spite of the great difficulties, they persist, thats the message. It doesn't mean that everything is magically ok, Hallmark or Disney didn't make this movie. It doesn't mean that everything is magically ok but it does mean that there is new life, there is redemption, there is forgiveness and grace, there is new joy whenever we keep putting one foot in front of the other and strive to be faithful even in the midst of difficulty. Ruth said to Naomi, “where you go, I’ll go.” There is a new day ahead.
As I have read the book of Ruth there is a movie that I think about, Steel Magnolias. In that story Julia Roberts character Shelby wants to have a baby but its a huge health risk for her because she is a type 1 diabetic. Her Mother, M’Lynn, played by Sally Field, is firmly against the idea. The other women in the town are friends to M’Lynn and Shelby through all of this. Shelby decides to get pregnant anyway and she gives birth to a son. After only a few short years of motherhood Shelby does pass away. At the funeral after all the other mourners have left, M’Lynn is there alone only with the other women who have been by her side the whole time. M’Lynn breaks down telling her friends that in Shelby’s last moments her husband and son in law weren't able to stay in the room, but she remained by her daughters side. In the scene she says this, “It struck me as amusing. Men are supposed to be made of steel or something. But I could not leave.” In her grief she is angry, distraught, but the other steel magnolias are there with her through all of this. Later on M’Lynn begins to accept what has happened. The final scene takes place on Easter, its spring time and Shelby’s son is hunting easter eggs. Its a new season and there is new life. For me there are some sticking similarities to the book of Ruth and Steel Magnolias. Ruth and Naomi, they are the original steel magnolias.